Wednesday, October 1, 2025

The Daughter of Auschwitz: My Story of Resilience, Survival and Hope

 Tova Friedman was four years old when her family was moved to a Jewish Ghetto in Poland and just six when they were forced into a cattle car bound for Auschwitz concentration camp. Tova is one of the youngest survivors of the horrendous death camp.  As time passes and the survivors of the Holocaust atrocities are fewer and fewer Tova feels it is her obligation to tell her story.  She must keep sharing her experiences so that the world will not forget what happened in World War II Germany and Poland. 


The story is told from Tova’s perspective with the help of author Malcom Brabant, a war reporter, whose detailed research helped Tova remember her experiences with meticulous detail.

Tova tells the story from the perspective of a young girl of twelve talking to a classmate.  This makes the story easier for young readers to understand and relate to the details.  We meet Tova when she comes to New York City and is starting her new life in America.  It is difficult at first adjusting to a new language and trying to fit into school.  She has never played with other children or had any friends before.  She dresses very differently and the school counselor even suggests she cut her long hair to look more American.


Tova Friedman was an incredibly lucky person.  She explains the many times she was saved by ingenuity, or just good luck from the jaws of death.  Her mother had many clever and good sense advice and ideas that helped them both live through the many horrible situations they faced. Her father also survived and they found each other after the war, traveling to the United States together.


Now Tova is in her eighties and has four children and eight grandchildren  She travels around the country telling her story and talking to young people about prejudice and anti-semitism.  She and her grandson Aron have a TikTok channel to reach a larger audience.  


This book has a strong message about being Jewish even in the face of adversity. The Jewish holidays are mentioned and food laws of kashrut. Judaism is integral to the story.  This is not a book that would exist without the Jewish component.  It is a great book for all young people to read, Jewish and non Jewish to understand the horrible consequences of hatred and prejudice.

This is an important memoir that will continue to honor the victims of the Holocaust and keep the atrocities that happened there fresh in our minds so that they will never be repeated again.


Friday, September 26, 2025

Max in the House of Spies

 Max in the House of Spies is a tale of World War II by Adam Gidwitz.  Gidwitz is also the Newbury Honor-winning author of The Inquisitor's Tale.

Max is an eleven year old boy living with his parents in Berlin, Germany in 1939.  Because his family is Jewish his parents are becoming aware that it is not safe for them to continue living in Germany.  They take the brave and proactive step to send their son, Max on the Kindertransport to England.  Max is leaving his parents and his country behind for the first time in his life. He is placed in a Jewish home in London.  

We follow Max as he adapts to his new life. He meets bullies at school and learns to defend himself and the brothers who he is living with. Max has some unusual abilities. He can make a working radio from the junk at the bottom of a trash can.  He also has two immortal creatures living on his shoulders.  Berg and Stein represent good aand evil and only MAx can see them.  They are his constant traveling companions as he negotiates his new life in England.

Max is also quite the genius and finds creative ways to get out off trouble and maybe even cause a little trouble.  His antics and talents come to the attention of the British Intelligence Service.  They are ready to train him as a spy and send him back to Germany to help the war effort.

This is the kind of story that will interest young readers. It will build confidence in the reader who feels small and wishes they were able to fight the bullies, also the reader who feels out of control and dreams of taking charge.

An entertaining for both adults and pre teens.

Monday, September 15, 2025

The Martha's Vineyard Beach and Book Club

Author, Martha Hall Kelly who also wrote Lilac Girls just gave me a good surprise with this new novel.   I thought this book would be more of a beach read about women on the Vineyard for the summer, but it is not that at all.

The Martha's Vineyard Beach and Book Club is a historic novel about American troops training on the Vineyard during World War II.  To set the scene we meet Mari Starward, a young woman in search of answers.  In 2016 she travels from California to the Vineyard after the death of her mother.  She found a name in her mother's belongings that leaves her with questions that send her east.

When she meets the reclusive Elizabeth Devereaux on her waterfront farm the past comes to meet the present.  Devereaux, a famous painter sets up their easels and as they paint begins to tell the story of the Smith sisters.  Telling the story of their experiences during 1942 on that very farm.

It is an interesting story of American troops, German U boats, friendship and love.  The intrigue of spies and risk taking.  Entertaining and compelling...

Friday, September 12, 2025

Heart of the Stranger

There are teachers, clergy or others who have made a lasting impression on our lives.  Their words or actions have made them seem like giants in our memories. Sometimes there are books that stand out in our memory .  Ones we recommend and quote long after we have closed the cover.

Angela Buchdahl is one of those people and her book, Heart of the Stranger is one of those books for me.  I have watched her conduct religious services at Central Synagogue in New York City through the magic of zoom and livestream. I have heard her sing, the voice of an angel.  I have heard her speak on occasion, with incredible wisdom and feeling.  So I was interested to read her book.

This is both an interesting look at her life and a powerful book in which she shares her thoughts and ideas. Growing up in an immigrant family coming to America from South Korea.  She was in many ways a minority in her Tacoma, Washington home.  She was raised Jewish, attending Temple Beth El in Tacoma, Washington, which her great-grandparents had assisted in founding a century before. 

Her mother, Sulja Yi Warnick,is a Korean buddhist and her father, Fredrick David Warnick, an Jewish American of Reform Ashkenazi descent.  At the age of 16 Angela became interested in the rabbinate. 

Interestingly, Angela was of such a strong character that each of the challenges in her life became incentives for her to conquer, push past and move ahead.  In this book she shares with her readers her insecurities, a feeling of not belonging and the setbacks as she travels to Israel, teaches at Jewish summer camps and attends rabbinical school.

She pushed back against the negativity, she fought back against her own self doubts, she found mentors who encouraged her and she found support from her mother and father to continue until she became the first Asian woman rabbi to lead one of the largest most influential synagogues in the world.

This is the story of the making of a rabbi, but even more it is the story of a mother/daughter relationship.  A mother who puts family above all else. The story of finding yourself and the pride that brings you.  But not only yourself, but your mother and other family and friends who have believed in you.  

Buchdahl's personal journey is a part of what makes her resilient and empathetic to all, embracing the notion that we are all bound to a larger mission and the healing power of community.  

Within this book Buchdahl has written both a memoir and a spiritual guide.  Her enthusiastic and joyful personality has created meaningful, upbeat worship.  Her belief in the power of faith and gratitude makes her a voice to listen to as she does not shy away from difficult topics or conversations.  She has faced some of the hardest challenges in recent history.

Angela Buchdahl is an American reform rabbi. She was the first East Asian-American to be ordained as a rabbi, and the first East Asian-American to be ordained as a hazzan (cantor). In 2011 she was named by Newsweek and The Daily Beast as one of America's "Most Influential Rabbis", and in 2012 by The Daily Beast as one of America's "Top 50 Rabbis". Buchdahl was recognized as one of the top five in The Forward's 2014 "Forward Fifty", a list of American Jews who had the most impact on the national scene in the previous year.


Wednesday, September 10, 2025

Happy New Years

The friendship of women from your past are sometimes so important that you work hard to keep those people in your life.  Sometimes those relationships are the ones you can pick up where you left off even after a long passage of time. Some women have a yearly reunion and others keep in touch randomly.  In Happy New Years the characters all keep in touch through letters. 

We meet Leah Zuckerman as she is finishing up at the Teachers College hoping with her fellow classmates to find work teaching school in Israel. Summoned to the principal's office, Leah is offered a position teaching in a school in the United States.  As she leaves Israel she decides the best way to stay in touch with her classmates will be through letter writing.  She proposes they all write a New Year's letter each Rosh Hashanah updating each other on their lives during the year.

Happy New Years by Maya Arad, is a very multi layered look at Leah Zuckerman's life, through her New Year letters.  Each year she writes to the group as a whole with news of her life, then adds an even more personal look at her life when she shares more information in her letter to Mira, the one friend in whom she confides the deeper darker secrets to.

Leah's life is full of ups and downs as she is the last of her group to get married and have children.  She goes through a number of job and career changes always in pursuit of the American dream.  We follow as Leah reinvents herself many times, going through marriage, divorce, relationships and work ups and downs in a life lived to the fullest.  

This is a story that covers a fifty year span of time and historic events both in the US and in Israel.  Leah experiences all that life in America has to offer and the consequences of all her choices.  Choosing in her letters to present a certain narrative, she struggles with her ability for reinvention and self-delusion.  She also struggles with the accepted norms of her time.  

She raises two sons, giving them everything she thinks they need to be successful. Then she struggles with her inability to control how their lives turnout.  Ari, who becomes a substance abuser and does not finish college. Yonatan, who is successful in business but not in love. 

As she writes her New Year's letters, putting a positive spin on her life, trying never to show jealousy about the news of her classmates and their successes, we see the author, Arad, showing us the more subtle story of women's behavior toward one another,  judging and misjudging each other. The competition between women more than the support of one another.

Women of a certain age, who grew up in the 1960s, will find so many references that are nostalgic.  In her letters she mentions making Yonatan and Ari fit in with their friends she buys them Levi's and Nike sneakers.  There will be many ideas and concepts that they will be able to relate to.  Leah writes to her friends about being invited to party where they are selling storage containers and later she starts selling these Tupperware containers herself at home parties. 

 Leah also writes about the difficulty of negotiating between motherhood, romance and work balance.  The book brings back for the reader memories of the prejudices and challenges of the time and how things have progressed as she lives into the 21 century.

The Last Death of the Year

 Sophie Hannah, who is the official Agatha Christie appointed author, has published her newest Hercule Poirot Mystery, The Last Death of the Year.

Hannah who has been writing her own mystery series was honored by the Christie family and estate to be the designated author to continue writing the Hercule Poirot  series of mysteries.  She has done a great job continuing to bring us the wonderful detective Poirot's life and murders that he continues to solve.  

This time Poirot and his friend, Police Investigator Edward Catchpool, are visiting a Greek Island for New Year's Eve in 1932.  Though Catchpool is enjoying swimming off the island of Lamperos after a difficult Christmas with his mother, this is not just a vacation, there will of course be a murder to solve.

Gathered on the island is a unusual group of guests.  This small community has come together to form a possible cult or religious group.  They are all attracted there by the idea that they will be forgiven any sins they have committed and do not have to reveal their past.

Using the theme of New Year resolutions the group decide to play a game after dinner writing their resolution for the new year, putting it in a bowl and having everyone guess who wrote which resolution.  

The most threatening resolution someone makes to perform "the last and first death of the year."  Now Poirot reveals to Catchpool why they were invited to this weekend party.  Someone's life had been threatened.  

Poirot and Catchpool must get to work and solve the last death of the year before anyone else can be killed.  They must investigate all the guests and also some of the members of the Lamperos community to see who could have been angry enough to commit murder.

An entertaining mystery though maybe not quite as intricate as Agatha Christie would have been.  

Wednesday, September 3, 2025

Ink Ribbon Red

Author Alex Pavesi has written a new mystery novel, Ink Ribbon Red.  

Using the mystery within a mystery theme, Pavesi keeps the reader guessing which is reality and which is fiction throughout the novel. The reader is introduced to six friends together for a weekend at a country house.  The friends have a web of thin strands that interconnect them to each other.  Each has a secret to protect. 

They come together for a yearly gathering this time to celebrate Anatol’s 30th birthday.  He introduces a game he invented called “Motive, Murder, Death”.  He asks each person to write a short story about one of the other friends committing a murder of someone else in the group.

This is the confusing part of the book, where the stories each character is writing are mixed in with what is happening between the characters at the get together.  The author purposely has blurred the lines between what is reality and what are the stories being created.  Using the unreliable narrative keeps the reader guessing until the end.